Dating, Personal Growth, Getting Good with Girls
November 6, 2012 Leave a comment
As a member of multiple online communities, a person (whom I have never met in person!) is leaving and with his departure leaves us with his top ten seduction lessons! Here they are for future reference, and we wish him the best of luck.
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June 15, 2012 Leave a comment
Last night I went out with Moran the coach from Rock Solid Game. Lets start with the import thing… I smashed into becoming a Vindaloo Violator!!! By maxing out my points for isolation sucsess – I am now at 202 points and the proud winner of my next Curry!! Read it and weep boys!! 
Course every point from here onwards gets even harder. I can only really score now by being direct, getting laid OR anything with 9+ woman… but these are hard even to find!
After action reportMoran asked me to write up a report as part of the training, so here it is!
May 30, 2012 Leave a comment
I feel like over the past 6 months we have grown into some kind of curry fueled super team!! As such here are the “players” in the big game, the curry pot challenge!
May 14, 2012 Leave a comment
Marcus Oakay of your charisma coach does it again with this little formula for starting conversations without effort:
http://www.yourcharismacoach.com/episodes/the-worlds-most-rejection-proof-opening-line-episode-19/
March 30, 2012 Leave a comment
And with 201 points, the curry pot challenge is proud to anounce it’s first ever Vindaloo Violator!! The Alpha storms in to take the title in style with the help of a yound hot 22 year old. No wonder he made the front of Men’s magazine!
March 1, 2012 Leave a comment
February 20, 2012 Leave a comment
The following are notes from the LSS bootcamp Feb 2012 – Day 3
Please note that these were taken on my mobile phone during the sessions, so are notes this is not a write up!
Summary
Shockingly good. I never thought that a woman would be able to give useful dating advice, she was good with some great advice.
Session notes:
Appearing like you are less invested – getting her to invest
Who cares more about who – if you seem like you care more than her, you are in trouble. Maybe she is being rude and your b
Nut reacting, maybe you’re entertaining too much.
Making sure youre investment levels are equal us really important.
Body language, making sure it is either equal mirroring, she may start to invest mitre.
If she invests more, you should take your investments levels down, folding arms, turning away slightly, checking your phone for a text. It beaks repore. Doing this will encourage her to invest more as long as you are not rude. Read more of this post
February 20, 2012 2 Comments
The following are notes from the LSS bootcamp Feb 2012 – Day 2
Please note that these were taken on my mobile phone during the sessions, so are notes this is not a write up!
London Playboy
http://www.thesocialcoach.com
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Summary
The guy has been doing this a long time. He has good scusess, but more than that, he is really happy with his life! He is a great example of the pick up path leading to a really positive place. Gave simple and solid advice. Great for beginners to intermediates.
Session notes:
2 things website, everything can be summed yo by two things.
Dating, attraction isn’t a choice.
2 things to do when you see an attractive girl to get her…
- be attractive
- takes steps to move your relationship forward, ie escalate.
Attraction
There are a number of factors that effect attraction
Note as london play boy is talking about social proof, ryan walks in with hit black girl that is clearly into him… This with all the pick up social proof in the world!!
With very attractive women, treating them normally will pr you heads above because the implication is that ‘i am used to talking to beautiful women’
Competence leads to confidence… So increasing confidence creates real confidence.
Till then fake it!
Solid open body language.
Slow movements, no feet shuffling etc pinch thumb and middle finger together locks hansa in place our you can put thumbs in back pocket
Voice – speak slowly. Embrace silence, embrace tension.
Cycle of learning-
Eg
Hit on girls, don’t know why you are bad
Hit on girls you know why you are bad
Hit on girls, consciously fixing your offshoots and you are good
Hit on girls, no effort, you are just good.
February 18, 2012 1 Comment
The following are notes from the LSS bootcamp Feb 2012 – Day 1
Watch the lecture live online now – click here for the video
Summary
These guys are all over the daygame. They run regular bootcamps, and are well respected. The top 10 daygame fuckup list below is really useful. Tom gave great value!
Session notes:
All I’ve done is fuck up a lot. Like a kid, they fuck up a lot, but they don’t think of this as a fuck up, they are giving their brain a reference point.
So does going out and just fucking up do enough? No because fucking up with the same mistake means you are just repeating the same mistake. You do have to improve.
So be wide open to making mistakes, be open to ducking up.
Game increases your odds, but you can not get every woman.
ToP ten fuck ups of day game…
1 – mr creepy. Stopping a girl the incorrect way. Mr creepy would follow her, tap her on the side, walk with her for a long time. FIX- a correct stop. Yad stop. Read more of this post
February 15, 2012 1 Comment
The Singles Night – Awesome place to build confidence… and meet girls!
So I met up with a friend and we gate crashed a speed dating singles party. At £25 per ticket we weren’t going to pay, so we blagged it… and what a night!! Let me explain why:
I took my first number within half an hour of being there. I introduced some of the shyer guys to random girls which was great fun. Best of all, I did an amazing 2 set where I held court and took one girls number, then I brought my wingman “the writer” in and got him to take the other girls number. Then paired off and agreed to double date again another time! Great fun!
I am a naturally confident guy. I do not have an issue even generally with talking to strangers. In this setting it made me a God. Reminiscent in many ways of the first week of university. Great fun! I would highly recommend a singles night to anyone wanting to build confidence and get over any AA issues that they may have.
