The following are notes from the LSS bootcamp Feb 2012 – Day 2
Please note that these were taken on my mobile phone during the sessions, so are notes this is not a write up!
The guy has been doing this a long time. He has good scusess, but more than that, he is really happy with his life! He is a great example of the pick up path leading to a really positive place. Gave simple and solid advice. Great for beginners to intermediates.
2 things website, everything can be summed yo by two things.
Dating, attraction isn’t a choice.
2 things to do when you see an attractive girl to get her…
- be attractive
- takes steps to move your relationship forward, ie escalate.
There are a number of factors that effect attraction
Note as london play boy is talking about social proof, ryan walks in with hit black girl that is clearly into him… This with all the pick up social proof in the world!!
With very attractive women, treating them normally will pr you heads above because the implication is that ‘i am used to talking to beautiful women’
Competence leads to confidence… So increasing confidence creates real confidence.
Till then fake it!
Solid open body language.
Slow movements, no feet shuffling etc pinch thumb and middle finger together locks hansa in place our you can put thumbs in back pocket
Voice – speak slowly. Embrace silence, embrace tension.
Cycle of learning-
- unconscious incompetence,
- conscious incompetence
- Conscious competence
- Unconscious competence
Hit on girls, don’t know why you are bad
Hit on girls you know why you are bad
Hit on girls, consciously fixing your offshoots and you are good
Hit on girls, no effort, you are just good.
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