Being a dominant Alpha Male
December 12, 2011 Leave a comment
I was meeting the geek-assasin at 5pm, planned to go to the arcade 13 year old style to play some old school video games, then bounce to another venue for a drink, 3rd venue mine or hers for sex. Then 3 things happen in nexus that put me a state I have never had before.
1) The foundation – A friend of mine that I went out with on Saturday night had shown me this video of the ultimate alpha move.
2) The Big Thing – I got a message from The Alpha of the most amazing weekend. He got an astonishing sounding SNL, but more than that, he won the first round of the curry pot challenge! The way he did has left me in awe of the man, I feel privileged to be able to cite him as my friend. But that’s okay, I am behind but I am going to get sex this evening… right?
3) The Call to action – I then got this message from the girl on my phone:
Hope the show went well. My Plans are going a little crazy for this eve – looks like im going to have to get a train at 7 (irritatingly) – still up for the arcade though!
DAMN! The Alpha has just owned me and I am getting blown out?! This is not happening. That is when I decided that I could now allow this happen…..
So I went around to hers at 5pm. She has her bags half packed and is getting ready to go to the arcade them immediately on to the train from their. I am internally adrift for a moment, if we leave now I will not get to sleep with her. She is literally put her coat on and is locking her door. The door is now locked.. is it too late? Never. It is never too late.
I grab her and push her against the door and start kissing her. I take the keys from here whilst doing this and then unlock the door. Take her into her room bang her up against the wall and carry on. We end up on the bed… but I want to be more dominating. I want to try and lead more, push it more. I need to start giving more instructions. I probably could have moved to sex without it, but I needed to do this.
I stopped stood up and just said “take your coat off”.
I then ignored her and walked over to a side table. She has a a bunch of costume jewellery etc on their, including a couple of jewelled collars. I turn , toss one to her and just say “put that on”. I turn my back to her without waiting for a response and then sort the lighting out, ignoring her, giving her enough time to put the collar on. I then go over drag her up by the collar and kiss her. I find a few excuses to drag her around the room, through her against a few things before returning to the bed. It was awesome!
She loved it
Afterwards, she said to me unprompted “you are very dominating”.
me: “do you mind”
Me: Do you like it
People have been telling me for ages that girls like to be lead, that they like to be dominated. I finally have empirical proof for myself that I can use to back this. I now have straight on direct experience where this has been shown to me, and whilst this may be old news to everyone else, this is new stuff to me. I really loved taking charge and being really dominant. I didn’t know I had it in me, perhaps I didn’t 6 months ago, but I do now!