So she was weird! Nice looking girl, but a little strange. Met her then went to the cafe bar place, it was a really good venue! She was very argumentative, and it felt like I started by having an argument with her! Everything I said to begin with she contested, and actually very early on I considered bailing on the date.
To begin with she was very don’t touch me. She physically told me at the start that polish women don’t like to be touched by people they don’t know.
AS THINGS SETTLED down she relaxed more. Funny, when she was talking about stuff she was into she quickly became attractive, but remained nit that great when argueing.
I think I copied fairly well with it.
Her telling me that she left poland because everyone was so miserable… with a really miserable look on her face!
Me Doing a bit of chat to another girl and her getting a little jealous.
Going to see her light switch on the walls as gorilla art with ‘ switch on your happiness’ on it, and when I pointed out the heart that someone had drawn around it, she suddenly got happy and it was really sweet. She opened up for a brief moment, and got that second I did fancy her.
A kiss on the cheek at 11 pm then a train home.
What did I do well-
The date set up emails were good
Doing the date!
Staying for the impro and turning up late for the date… If I had sacrificed the impro in the hopes of bring better for the girl I would have been annoyed at myself.
Taking coffee late as my drink of choice
Not caring too much about the outcome…
despite her saying not to touch her at the beginning of the night, escalating whilst inn the cafe to some touching, sitting next to her etc etc.
WHAT COULD I HAVE DONE BETTER?
Gone for the kiss.
Kiss closedst the end, must get better at this.
Lead more. Even though she was very dominating, I should have put my foot down and tried to lead and dominate more.
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